I Didn’t Come this Far – to come this Far

I Didn’t Come this Far – to come this Far

I Didn’t Come this Far – to come this Far

4 Jan, 2026

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“I Didn’t Come this Far –

To come this Far”

I heard this said

And it hit me

And this thing happened

That sometimes does

Where it’s like everything around me

Connects to everything within me

And stands still –

Immobilised

Suspended

Paused

And it’s as if I’m outside myself

Viewing “Me” externally

And then as quickly as this happens

It’s over

And the voices rise up

And I heard

“I’m not stopping now

And

I’m not stopping here

Not as this version of who I am

Or even with the mindset

That somewhere in the future 

I’ll reach this place

This perspective

Of enough”

“It’s not about

The end not being good enough

Or constantly moving the goal post

It’s simply about embracing change

With a clear and concise understanding

That life is organic

It’s in constant motion

And the process

Is part of the package”

“Movement

Flow

A constant state of “more”

Even in small

Almost imperceivable increments

Is how this works

It’s how it’s meant to behave

How it’s meant to unfold

The unfolding

Just keeps Unfolding”

“And it will do it

Regardless of the effort you put in

The difference isn’t it’s acceleration –

How quickly and deliberately

It functions –

But the level of control you feel over it 

The degree of calm or peace you feel

As you interact with it

The calm and ease 

You travel through life with”

“It goes beyond understanding

It’s more in the realm of

Greater acceptance

Enables greater growth

Or compatibility with it

Not strenuous activity to keep up

Or stay ahead

But a playful, peaceful interaction”

“Creation has the option of delighting you

As opposed to meeting expectation

Or feeling like just more of the same

And lacking lustre

It’s one of the things 

That is in existence

As a given

But you’re not taught

Or encouraged 

To align with it that way”

“So much in the physical

Is about reaching a limit

A place of destination

A finite point of purpose”

“ THIS

Is not 

THAT “

“It’s called BEING

And right NOW

Is a great time 

To be 

A busy Being –

Just

Busy being”

And it’s here I ask 

Who’s with me?

Cause they’re not familiar

And there’s been no introduction

I’m certain it’s male

I feel incredible love

A calmness of Being

And the wisdom to listen

To the wisdom

It’s with thanks –

and still

SO

Much love –

“We” sign off

Kate ( & ??)

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Happy New You !

Happy New You !

Happy New You !

31 Dec, 2025

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Looking back over 2025

I’ve got highlights

Some are milestones

Some are just great memories

I made a lot of those –

Snapshots of fun

And feeling good

 

When I stop to think about what stands out

I’m drawn to 

What’s important to me

Where did I spend my time?

What got my attention?

Where was my focus?

 

In this last year I got curious

Well actually

I’m always curious

So….

Really, I got curious about BEING curious

 

Curious about my curiosity!

 

I realise, it’s unique

Just like I am

I have a particular penchant, for certain things

And it’s that being interested that fuels who I am

Where I’m going

And what I’m doing

 

This year I melded old and new

I explored habits and practices that were steeped in history

And I embraced and interacted 

With New Age ritual and exploring the unknown

Not just foreign to me

But a lot that’s not common to humans as a whole

 

It’s been a wild, mystical net I cast

And this coming year

I’m going to buckle up 

And ride where it takes me

 

I’m ready to lean in deeper

To carve out a bigger space

In who I am 

How….

Where my curiosity has lead me

Can expand and grow

 

I’m excited

In the unknown

In the turning blind corners

To see what I find

But also to see how I fit

Into life

Into all that I’ve found wonder in

And how this current version of me

Filters all the experience that has lead me here – 

To this point

To this place

In this NOW

So that I can simply carry on

 

So, I can’t wish you

“Happy New Year”

I HAVE to offer:

HAPPY NEW YOU!

 

My heart is full

As I carry on exploring 

I sincerely hope yours is too

And that it maintains

As you traverse the year ahead

 

It’s a funny thing to me

Saying HAPPY NEW YEAR

It’s like wishing the year itself a great one

 

If you take a look at the numerology

It has that covered

It doesn’t need any luck

It’s sorted

 

2026 is a 1 year

Or a 10

And both are automatically ushering in

New beginnings

Change

Initiation

 

And without pressure or urgency – 

Just an invitation to start

From where you are

AS who you are

 

2026 doesn’t create the experience

WE DO

 

It’s identity over outcomes

It’s a year

It’s going to pass whether we label it happy or not

The months are lined up

The days will keep coming

You will always be in NOW – 

Whether you’re rushing or not

 

What actually changes isn’t the time we’re in –

It’s who we are while we’re in it

That’s the part we get to choose

 

What matters is how – 

And AS WHO

We walk through it

We don’t need to make the year happy

We need to feel more like ourselves inside it

 

Just attempt to fill it with fun

Or figure out what that is…

Relax as you go

Be honest with yourself

Breathe into the hairpin turns

Release all there is about yourself

That holds you back

Or keeps you stuck

 

That’s all it takes

The intention to

Let go!

 

HAPPY NEW YOU! 

 

Much love

Kate (& Co)

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The “Mind Reading” Myth

The “Mind Reading” Myth

The “Mind Reading” Myth

29 Dec, 2025

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With all the celebrating and socialising lately

I’ve been reminded

Of what is  probably the most frequent pitfall of being a Psychic Medium

 

When people meet me or chat with me

I”m often asked:

“So…. What do you do?”

 

It’s a question that can lead to conversation

Or NOT

 

The response

Has 2 very distinct reactions

People either lean in

Eyes wide

And want you to tell them EVERYTHING

Or….

They exit your general sphere as quickly as possible

Often casting backward glances to ensure you’re not pursuing them

 

I want to be clear

I want to educate

And I want to leave this misnomer in the dirt

Where it belongs

 

Psychics DO NOT read your mind.

 

It’s quite simply

Just not how it works

 

“Your thoughts”

Are called that

By nature of the fact

THEY ARE

Yours

And only yours

No other person can read them

Unless you share them

And to do that

You have to be invited

 

There’s also this other little misconception…

That those of us that do this work

Are a 24hr, 7 day a week, hotspot

If you’re worth getting a reading from

You don’t operate like that

 

Show me a tradie you can randomly approach

Who will immediately pull out a wrench

And start tinkering because you crossed paths

We’re no different

When this work is done seriously

As an act of service

And supported by training, experience, or credentials

You would need to be invited

 

That’s what appointments are for

Or dedicated time

 

Intention is important in any endeavour

Nothing much happens without it

It’s relevant here

The recipient is only ever that

If that is your clear intent

And you action it

 

When someone makes a booking

They are actively granting permission

To engage with my services and skillset

They’re seeking insight, answers, or clarity

Often there’s a specific question or subject they wish to explore

There is a need to be filled

And shared

 

Being a Psychic Medium

Does not mean you’re digging through whatever occupies the confines of others minds

It’s only there if you WANT it

Not, if you don’t

 

We’re not offended

If it’s not your thing

But it is a little sharp

To be dubbed a snoop

Simply because we have an ability

 

For the greater portion of my life

I had other careers

And the vast majority of people I met

Had absolutely NO idea

I had these skills

 

I’m apparently….

Considered great company

Good fun

Easy to talk to

I “make people feel seen and heard”

AND.. that’s just me being social

 

I hope this creates clarity

And brings ease

Relax

Your secrets are safe

And conversation

Is not consent

 

Much love

Kate

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I’m Listening If You’re Asking

I’m Listening If You’re Asking

I’m Listening If You’re Asking

27 Dec, 2025

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“Older women have wisdom they may be prepared to share.
Younger women have opinions they feel entitled to.”

This was said to me today.
By someone relatively new in my team of guides in spirit.
The statement was followed by rather loud laughter.

I’ve been told to call her “MH”

There’s no shame or judgement in that statement.
It’s just an observation — the way of things.
The grand design of life.
An unwritten clause in the whole “being human” agreement we sign when we decide to partake.

So don’t get upset.
Drink it in.
Pay attention — instead of “paying the price”.

I’ve been spammed lately.
Yes…
I did a whole lot of online shopping for the silly season.

I “cheated”.
No — hand picked.
Deliberately chosen.
Perfectly selected.
Bespoke.

Judge me all you like — it’s the way of the world for now.
Everything is online.
There’s no trying it on.
No fondling before purchase.
No placing it in your trolley, wandering the store, then regretting the purchase before you leave.

And that’s fine.

But something’s been weighing on me.

I’ve thought about it deliberately.
Wandered the hallways of my home
And the narrow corridors of my mind.
Ruminating.
Practising the script.
Deciding WHETHER to say what I really think.

Not because I’m worried about the response.
And not because I care what people think of me.

But because I wonder —
Does anybody actually CARE ?

I’ve been asked.
Very specifically.
In multiple emails.

For my opinion.
My response.
On each and every purchase.

And I don’t fumble for words.
I don’t stress about the answer.
I’m not bothered by what others might think of my response.

Because let’s be honest —
When people pick holes in others, they’re usually talking about “themselves” anyway.

The questions are clear:
“How was it?”
“How did we do?”
“Please tell us how great we are.”

And that’s fine.
It’s good business.

Until…

As the responder, I have to ask:
DO YOU actually care?

Or are you ticking boxes in modern society?
Following a marketing guru’s checklist?
Doing what everyone else does because a competitor does it?
Have you outsourced this part of your business and stopped paying attention altogether?

Because if you’re not listening, I’m really tired of wasting my time.

Note to self.

Stop asking for feedback if you’re not prepared to act on it.
Or genuinely consider the gift someone is offering you by taking the time to respond.

So many of us wander through life not really paying attention — and that’s okay.
Until we start pestering people.
Or deliberately drawing attention to ourselves.
Or asking questions we don’t actually want answered.

Or thrashing others in social settings with laser-focused opinions, without the right of reply.
Or — heaven forbid — encountering a contrasting view.

This isn’t a takedown.
It’s just a small rant.

Because whether you’re selling something,
Selling yourself,
Sharing a point of view,
Or promoting a polarising belief —

Maybe there’s a better way.

So, just by way of sharing — because I DO care:

If you’re a company sending emails in the belief it will improve business — actually listen.

If you’re the most opinionated person in the group — maybe it’s time to listen, not linger in how YOU alone will save the world.

And if you’re someone over 50 with a wild ride, or a rock-steady history to share — read the room.

And if you’re younger, certain, and full of fire — notice when passion turns into projection.

Still

Read the room…

Respond when invited.
Act when someone asks.

Because we can all ask questions.
But not all of us are engaged with the answers.

And that has nothing to do with age.

I’m really into contrast.
I value discussion and disagreement.
I’m trying to play in the socials sandpit and embrace the tech.

But the older I get, the more aware I am of how little I know.

I’m not here to save anyone.
I’m busy enough just holding my own.
And I’m seeking peace — not polarity.

Now.

To the crew I just bought a bra from online…

Much love,
Kate & MH

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It’s a Great Time to be Grateful

It’s a Great Time to be Grateful

It’s a Great Time to be Grateful

26 Dec, 2025

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For me, it’s “Boxing Day”

The day after Christmas

After all the giving and the doing

And before the New Year has started

Along with all it’s promises and resolutions

Most of which are hollow

Or land in a screaming heap somewhere outside the target zone

Just saying……

If you’re into manifestation

Or creating

Or wanting something greater than what you got going on

Here’s a great chance

NOW, is a wonderful opportunity

Just waiting to happen

You’re most likely in the afterglow of great gifts

Way too much food

Maybe a lil alcohol fuelled “Cheer”

And REALLY raw, current, easily felt – experience

Of just what you can be grateful for

It may be excess

It may be the perfect amount

Either way, you’re in the sweet spot

Where, if you lean in to all that was wonderful

And feel the joy 

And give thanks 

You usher in

You invite

You prepare

For more

More of the same

Now, don’t misunderstand me

NOT more gifts, or grog, or tangible “stuff”

But the essence of all that

You hear me?

Dig into the feel of unwrapping that pressie that someone so lovingly offered

The one that took them ages to save for

The one that was so well considered 

The one that was this tangible token

Of all the love and care they feel for you

You’ve been spoilt

Recognise it

It’s the feelings that matter most when we come to manifesting

Not the repeat of more things

Often when we’re busy creating

It’s tricky to conjure from a feeling that’s foreign or unknown

Ask someone who’s never known driving a car

To create a sports car for themselves

It’s kind of a mute point of purpose

SO!

The real grit here

Comes from the feeling of receiving

And right now

A huge number of us

Are lucky enough to know that

To have had that experience first hand!

Just yesterday (or today, depending where in the world you woke up)

Make the gift of giving COUNT

Use it

To pave the way to more

A “New Year” of Joy

A new “You”

A greater experience of ease

And alignment with Life

I’m practicing gratitude not as a checklist 

But as a state of “Being”

Because when you slow down enough to truly appreciate what you’ve received

Whether it’s gifts, time, rest, connection 

Or simply making it through

You shift something internal 

Gratitude isn’t passive

It’s active alignment

It’s saying, “I see the good”

I RECOGNISE it 

I MAKE SPACE for it

And that matters

What we appreciate tends to expand

Not in a forced, “think positive” way

But in the way that awareness sharpens 

When you acknowledge abundance in its current form

You stop signalling lack

You stop rushing past the evidence that life is already responding to you

Gratitude becomes the reason to be

To stay present 

To stay open 

To stay receptive

This season, I’m letting gratitude do the quiet work of manifesting 

No vision boards, no pressure 

Just honest appreciation for what arrived 

Even if it didn’t look exactly like I imagined

Especially then

Because being grateful isn’t about settling

It’s about trusting that more good knows where to find you

Gratitude

Is an invitation

An intention

And the rewards

Are greater than perhaps you can imagine

Merry Everything People!

Much Love

Kate & Hope

xx

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