12 June 2026

Vanilla.

You know how it’s become one of those words that’s rarely a compliment?

It’s used to describe people, experiences, lives.

A bit plain.
A bit predictable.
A bit lacking in pizzazz.

More an adjective than a flavour, really.

And it’s the word that came to mind as I sat down to write this.

For a couple of weeks now I’ve been thinking I’m due to put a blog post up.

Then I think…

About what?

A short while back I said I’d show up more often.

I’d really try at that.

And here I am…

Knowing I’m overdue.

And yet not inspired.

I’m really not about rushing things.

Or doing it because you’re supposed to.

Or acting out of obligation.

I’ve never found much magic in forcing things.

So now I’m sitting here wondering if that’s the problem.

Is it because nothing noteworthy has happened lately?

No.

Stuff is happening all the time.

Good stuff.

Meaningful stuff.

Life stuff.

Am I just desensitised to its brilliance?

Does it make my life boring?

Am I somehow just going through the motions?

Am I…

VANILLA?

Heaven forbid.

But the longer I’ve sat with that thought, the more I’ve realised something.

Maybe life isn’t supposed to constantly feel remarkable.

Maybe some seasons are quieter than others.

Maybe life is just unfolding.

And maybe that’s exactly what I’m struggling to write about.

Because we’re taught to share the milestones.

The adventures.

The transformations.

The moments hanging dramatically off the edge of a cliff.

But what about the months where life simply… works?

Where nothing is on fire.

Nothing is broken.

Nothing desperately needs fixing.

There are quiet moments that join themselves together over and over again to simulate a day.

Then a week.

Then a month.

And perhaps in themselves they’re the message.

They are the joy.

I don’t need to go hunting for experiences worthy of social media stories.

I can just be.

You can just be.

We can all just be.

And be okay with that.

Right now, I’m Vanilla.

Maybe even a little melted.

And I’ll choose that every time over chaos for the sake of distraction.

Or chasing a version of life that isn’t really mine.

I’m happy to watch others.

To see their self-expression spill over and become part of a collective joy.

It’s beautiful.

And for now, it’s enough.

Much love

Kate

3 May, 2026

Stop Planning a Future. 

Start Living a Life.

Somewhere along the way, we got obsessed with “what’s next.”

Next goal.
Next job.
Next version of ourselves.
Next big thing that’s finally going to make everything feel… right.

And look – planning isn’t the enemy. It’s useful. It gives direction. But when your entire life becomes about what’s coming later, something quietly slips through your fingers:

Right now.

You wake up thinking about what needs to happen next. You go through your day ticking boxes, moving pieces around, trying to build a version of life that exists somewhere down the line. And before you know it, the day’s over – and you didn’t really live any of it. You just managed it.

That’s the trap.

You tell yourself, “Once I get there, I’ll slow down.”
But “there” keeps moving.

You hit one milestone, and instead of feeling it, you immediately set another. Not because you’re broken or ungrateful – but because you’ve trained yourself to live in the future.

If you must chase something, chase what creates joy. If you must hunt down anything, let it be moments that actually feel like living.

The problem is, the future isn’t where your life happens.

Your life is in the random conversations you half-listen to because you’re distracted.
It’s in the walk you rush through because you’re thinking about your next task.
It’s in the quiet moments you fill with noise because being still feels unproductive.

When you’re constantly focused on building tomorrow, you end up outsourcing your happiness to a version of life that doesn’t exist yet.

And here’s the uncomfortable part: you’re spending real, limited time on a hypothetical version of your life.

Time isn’t waiting for you to “arrive.” It’s being used up while you’re planning the arrival.

That doesn’t mean you should stop caring about your future. It just means the future shouldn’t cost you your present.

There’s a difference between having direction and living in delay.

You can work toward something and still notice your life as it’s happening. You can have goals without turning every day into a stepping stone you barely register.

Because if every day is just a means to an end… when do you actually get to live?

At some point, you have to stop treating today like it’s just preparation.

Drink your coffee without multitasking.
Pay attention when someone’s talking to you.
Go for a walk without turning it into a productivity hack.
Let moments be enough, even if they’re not leading anywhere.

Not everything needs to be optimized. Some things are just meant to be experienced.

The truth is simple, even if it’s hard to accept:

You don’t build a meaningful life in the future.
You build it in ordinary, unremarkable days that you actually show up for.

So plan, sure. Dream big. Set goals.

But don’t forget to live a little while you’re at it.

Because one day, the future you’ve been chasing will arrive…

And it will just feel like today.

Much love

Kate

19 April, 2026

I’m not here to advertise. 

I’m here to share.

And you’ll either find your way here…..

Or not.

I have exceptional things happen to me most days –

Conversations with truly interesting, enlightened folk.

There are circumstances and occurrences that don’t

And probably won’t , happen to others.

I feel lucky for this.

Do I post about it?

NO

Does that mean it’s not worthy?

NO

It simply means

I’m human first.

And the social media space isn’t an extension of me –

It’s external to me.

I love it.

It brings me a whole bunch of fun, a lot of the time.

But it’s not natural to me to post consistently.

It is, however, natural to me to share.

Maybe not this stuff.

Cause for a long time,

I kept it to myself.

I chose my audience very carefully.

So I’d like to feed this aspect of myself a little more…..

If it’s a “feeding the greater good” kinda thing for me to do. 

I want to be present.

In regard to posting.

I want to do it unfiltered.

I often have a thought /a conversation/ a nudge….

And think, yeah, that would be good to share.

Then don’t.

Cause I allow the white noise to get in the way.

I delay….

And then I don’t do it at all.

I’m going to work on that.

I can’t count the many times I’ve been here before –

Well, the point just before this, really.

Cause today is different.

There’s now.

And in my “Now”

I see it like “This”

ALL “the socials”

Are the modern version of advertising.

The Yellow Pages phone book directory.

The newspaper ad.

The billboard.

The letterbox flyer.

The cinema advert.

The door to door salesperson.

The multi level marketing meeting….

Etc., Etc.

And I post randomly

In spurts

Cause I get here and think:

“Why bother”

“I really don’t have the energy”

“I don’t care”

“I’m truly not invested in how many people stopped or scrolled past me”

( What’s THAT about, in any universe? )

Because…..

The numbers don’t reflect my worth.

Or give value to what I share.

Only you can do that

By finding it interesting, enjoyable, enlightening.

The algorithm doesn’t reward unless you play it’s game.

It’s extremely time consuming.

( YES! it is, to all those who insist otherwise, with all your apps and AI automated assistance.)

( And just for the record…. there are flaws…. and if you bothered to proofread or fact-check, you’d see it.)

I’m simply here cause at some point,

I thought I had to be.

It was expressed as the new norm

I’m only in this

To be me.

And part of “Being Me”

Is…

Doing this

Meaning mediumship and channelling.

It lights me up.

I feel connected to life – and all that exists beyond it.

I enjoy being of service.

I love the gift I have.

I’m addicted to exploring how to expand and grow it.

It brings me joy.

I’m not “on sale.”

I’m not a weekly, monthly or yearly target.

I’m not even a consumable.

Hopefully… I’m “a relatable”

I’m human.

I’m flawed.

I’m emotional.

I’m weird, even.

So if I’m something to show up on socials

I want to be a someone.

And the only “someone” I can be…

IS ME

(everyone else is taken…)

I believe – truly, madly, deeply – 

in the magic.

The outrageousness of synchronicity.

And the value

Of Just Being.

Join me.

Don’t join me.

Seek me out.

Stumble across me.

It matters not.

Beause it’s all an experiment –

NOT for the sake of the results.

But for the sake of connecting with it happening.

The seeking.

The “aha” moments.

The connection with the sheer enjoyment of who you are…

Who you might become.

I can only share with you 

As myself,

From my perspective.

I can’t make you

I won’t force you

I’m not in charge/control/or even my right mind most of the time.

I’m just me

And I’m calm/happy/engaged/curious.

Anything you see here

Is simply me being excited about something 

that happened through me.

So excited, 

I want to offer you the same chance at connecting with it.

My greatest cohorts?

They aren’t the ones reading my posts.

They write them.

They create them.

And enlighten me.

They share with me –

So that I may share with you.

They range from off world beings 

To long dead individuals…

The recent loved ones I treasured when they were here.

The relatives I never met, let alone knew.

Most I’ve never encountered till they dropped into my awareness.

Some I knew of, as history tells…

But get to meet them on their own terms

With their own stories and telling of their lives.

I do this now

In the hope

That me being me

Might help

You being you.

Much love

Kate

4 Jan, 2026

“I Didn’t Come this Far –

To come this Far”

I heard this said

And it hit me

And this thing happened

That sometimes does

Where it’s like everything around me

Connects to everything within me

And stands still –

Immobilised

Suspended

Paused

And it’s as if I’m outside myself

Viewing “Me” externally

And then as quickly as this happens

It’s over

And the voices rise up

And I heard

“I’m not stopping now

And

I’m not stopping here

Not as this version of who I am

Or even with the mindset

That somewhere in the future 

I’ll reach this place

This perspective

Of enough”

“It’s not about

The end not being good enough

Or constantly moving the goal post

It’s simply about embracing change

With a clear and concise understanding

That life is organic

It’s in constant motion

And the process

Is part of the package”

“Movement

Flow

A constant state of “more”

Even in small

Almost imperceivable increments

Is how this works

It’s how it’s meant to behave

How it’s meant to unfold

The unfolding

Just keeps Unfolding”

“And it will do it

Regardless of the effort you put in

The difference isn’t it’s acceleration –

How quickly and deliberately

It functions –

But the level of control you feel over it 

The degree of calm or peace you feel

As you interact with it

The calm and ease 

You travel through life with”

“It goes beyond understanding

It’s more in the realm of

Greater acceptance

Enables greater growth

Or compatibility with it

Not strenuous activity to keep up

Or stay ahead

But a playful, peaceful interaction”

“Creation has the option of delighting you

As opposed to meeting expectation

Or feeling like just more of the same

And lacking lustre

It’s one of the things 

That is in existence

As a given

But you’re not taught

Or encouraged 

To align with it that way”

“So much in the physical

Is about reaching a limit

A place of destination

A finite point of purpose”

“ THIS

Is not 

THAT “

“It’s called BEING

And right NOW

Is a great time 

To be 

A busy Being –

Just

Busy being”

And it’s here I ask 

Who’s with me?

Cause they’re not familiar

And there’s been no introduction

I’m certain it’s male

I feel incredible love

A calmness of Being

And the wisdom to listen

To the wisdom

It’s with thanks –

and still

SO

Much love –

“We” sign off

Kate ( & ??)

31 Dec, 2025

Looking back over 2025

I’ve got highlights

Some are milestones

Some are just great memories

I made a lot of those –

Snapshots of fun

And feeling good

When I stop to think about what stands out

I’m drawn to 

What’s important to me

Where did I spend my time?

What got my attention?

Where was my focus?

In this last year I got curious

Well actually

I’m always curious

So….

Really, I got curious about BEING curious

Curious about my curiosity!

I realise, it’s unique

Just like I am

I have a particular penchant, for certain things

And it’s that being interested that fuels who I am

Where I’m going

And what I’m doing

This year I melded old and new

I explored habits and practices that were steeped in history

And I embraced and interacted 

With New Age ritual and exploring the unknown

Not just foreign to me

But a lot that’s not common to humans as a whole

It’s been a wild, mystical net I cast

And this coming year

I’m going to buckle up 

And ride where it takes me

I’m ready to lean in deeper

To carve out a bigger space

In who I am 

How….

Where my curiosity has lead me

Can expand and grow

I’m excited

In the unknown

In the turning blind corners

To see what I find

But also to see how I fit

Into life

Into all that I’ve found wonder in

And how this current version of me

Filters all the experience that has lead me here – 

To this point

To this place

In this NOW

So that I can simply carry on

So, I can’t wish you

“Happy New Year”

I HAVE to offer:

HAPPY NEW YOU!

My heart is full

As I carry on exploring 

I sincerely hope yours is too

And that it maintains

As you traverse the year ahead

It’s a funny thing to me

Saying HAPPY NEW YEAR

It’s like wishing the year itself a great one

If you take a look at the numerology

It has that covered

It doesn’t need any luck

It’s sorted

2026 is a 1 year

Or a 10

And both are automatically ushering in

New beginnings

Change

Initiation

And without pressure or urgency – 

Just an invitation to start

From where you are

AS who you are

2026 doesn’t create the experience

WE DO

It’s identity over outcomes

It’s a year

It’s going to pass whether we label it happy or not

The months are lined up

The days will keep coming

You will always be in NOW – 

Whether you’re rushing or not

What actually changes isn’t the time we’re in –

It’s who we are while we’re in it

That’s the part we get to choose

What matters is how – 

And AS WHO –

We walk through it

We don’t need to make the year happy

We need to feel more like ourselves inside it

Just attempt to fill it with fun

Or figure out what that is…

Relax as you go

Be honest with yourself

Breathe into the hairpin turns

Release all there is about yourself

That holds you back

Or keeps you stuck

That’s all it takes

The intention to

Let go!

HAPPY NEW YOU! 

Much love

Kate (& Co)

29 Dec, 2025

With all the celebrating and socialising lately

I’ve been reminded

Of what is  probably the most frequent pitfall of being a Psychic Medium

When people meet me or chat with me

I’m often asked:

“So…. What do you do?”

It’s a question that can lead to conversation

Or NOT

The response

Has 2 very distinct reactions

People either lean in

Eyes wide

And want you to tell them EVERYTHING

Or….

They exit your general sphere as quickly as possible

Often casting backward glances to ensure you’re not pursuing them

I want to be clear

I want to educate

And I want to leave this misnomer in the dirt

Where it belongs

Psychics DO NOT read your mind.

It’s quite simply

Just not how it works

“Your thoughts”

Are called that

By nature of the fact

THEY ARE

Yours

And only yours

No other person can read them

Unless you share them

And to do that

You have to be invited

There’s also this other little misconception…

That those of us that do this work

Are a 24hr, 7 day a week, hotspot

If you’re worth getting a reading from

You don’t operate like that

Show me a tradie you can randomly approach

Who will immediately pull out a wrench

And start tinkering because you crossed paths

We’re no different

When this work is done seriously

As an act of service

And supported by training, experience, or credentials

You would need to be invited

That’s what appointments are for

Or dedicated time

Intention is important in any endeavour

Nothing much happens without it

It’s relevant here

The recipient is only ever that

If that is your clear intent

And you action it

When someone makes a booking

They are actively granting permission

To engage with my services and skillset

They’re seeking insight, answers, or clarity

Often there’s a specific question or subject they wish to explore

There is a need to be filled

And shared

Being a Psychic Medium

Does not mean you’re digging through whatever occupies the confines of others minds

It’s only there if you WANT it

Not, if you don’t

We’re not offended

If it’s not your thing

But it is a little sharp

To be dubbed a snoop

Simply because we have an ability

For the greater portion of my life

I had other careers

And the vast majority of people I met

Had absolutely NO idea

I had these skills

I’m apparently….

Considered great company

Good fun

Easy to talk to

I “make people feel seen and heard”

AND.. that’s just me being social

I hope this creates clarity

And brings ease

Relax

Your secrets are safe

And conversation

Is not consent

Much love

Kate

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