Why Come Back?

Why Come Back?

Why Come Back?

1 July. 2025

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Someone recently asked Hope………

If the afterlife, or “heaven”, is so profoundly blissful

Why would souls want to return to earth and the human experience again?

This is a great question-

And we get asked it often.

Firstly, souls return to earth for growth, not comfort.

Earth is like a school for the Soul.

Life on earth isn’t a punishment, or random-

It’s an opportunity for growth, evolution, and expansion.

Earth and being in a physical body, provide a unique experience for learning.

It’s here you get to: 

-Learn specific lessons

-Create emotional depth

-Heal patterns of behaviour or belief that no longer serve your ultimate self

-Experience what it’s like to be human in all it’s emotional and sensory richness

“Heaven” is the classroom after you’ve taken the test.

It’s beautiful and peaceful-

But Earth is where the learning actually happens.

Don’t forget contrast.

We learn through it.

It’s how you recognise- or discern- what you have in relation to something else.

And one often, can’t exist without the other.

You only know light, because of dark.

Souls choose to return to the duality because it sharpens awareness and deepens understanding.

Think in terms of pain and pleasure,

Or fear and love.

Earth’s challenges help define these to the human-

And in turn, the Soul.

Then, there’s what you like to call

Being of Service

Those of you who find deep personal growth in assisting others-

Supporting loved ones,

Healing,

Teaching,

Guiding-

Lots of you volunteer to return out of love, even when you don’t need to

Some souls are curious and simply want to create.

Earth is one of the few places where creation happens with limitation.

( For now, anyway – this is in a state of change/review currently)

For a great chunk of your history, you have worked under the premise that hard work is required to manifest any number of things or situations-

And the reward of their coming into being

Is all the sweeter,

Or appreciated more,

When you have earned the result.

It has long been thought, that amnesia is part of the game.

(This too is up for deliberation, given the emergence of a number of souls recalling previously unknown details of other existence and consciousness)

When you are here, you forget who you really are.

This was previously, by design-

To allow for a more genuine experience,

And to avoid mass hysteria from your limited perspective.

It has taken, “your time”, to allow a gentle immersion into the idea you can create outside the original parameters.

To some, this is a vastly exciting possibility.

To most, way too much responsibility.

(We shall see…..)

It will be interesting to see where this takes you:

Being able to have a complete understanding from the Souls perspective at all times-

Not just when you have returned to Spirit.

From the broader view- as just a soul-

Even the hardest lives make sense,

And many souls opt to “go again”

While on earth, the appeal in the “aha” moments feels huge-

Because you’re remembering while you’re here, within the human experience.

This changes lots from a life perspective.

Earth- and being human- appeals to the souls who crave growth, purpose, creation and even adventure.

In spirit , or at a Soul level, the bliss is constant.

There is calm and connection.

When you’re in Spirit, you’re surrounded by love-

But you’re not being stretched in the same way.

On Earth, in a body, it’s raw and real-

Which is what prompts expansion.

You get to work the muscles that support ultimate growth.

Is it comfortable?

Not always.

But do you grow from it?

Absolutely.

So even though the afterlife- or “heaven” -is full of love , light, and peace,

Many souls choose to return because this is where the work happens.

The healing.

The breakthroughs.

The connections that ripple far beyond one lifetime.

We hope- whatever your reasons, your choices-

The divide between the two points of focus

Comes to feel closer together,

So that your exploration and understanding in the one

Blends seamlessly into the other….

And back again.

If it’s the Soul’s desire, 

Know- that for now-

They are necessary,

And are designed to enhance the experience and results of each other.

Much love

Hope

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Body BFF

Body BFF

Body BFF

27 June 2025

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So many of you are consumed by the relationships in your lives —
or often, the lack of them.
The ache of their absence.
The wanting of a special someone —
for any number of reasons.

That’s not what this is about.
It’s more a point of focus that has to have this included,
for you to enter the space —
the mindset —
in your humanness —
that will help facilitate
where we are going,
what we want to share.

There are many forms,
or kinds of relationship,
you can —
and do —
experience from a physical body.

It’s this intersection we want to draw your attention to:
the original relationship,
the longest-standing one
ALL of you have ever had —
the relationship —
or more, the partnership —
you have with your body.

Considering it’s the greatest relationship you have ever had —
that your body is the oldest acquaintance of your life,
and no other can ever surpass this —
the first and last companion you will ever know —
we find it interesting
how so many
don’t value it,
or pay it the attention it deserves.

It’s not nurtured,
or honoured.
It’s often treated as alien and separate —
a thing
at your disposal.

In a lot of cases,
this will be the first time many of you
will ever have considered this:
that in all your searching,
in all your wanting,
from right here,
in this moment,
you are meeting your body —
as a counterpart,
a friend,
a romance of the self.

We highlight this
because a number of you consider your health and wellbeing
to be measured by the body.
That’s where the expression of these occur for you —
where the lack of complete physical, mental, and social well-being shows up.

Beneath the symptoms,
and beyond the stories,
there is a connection waiting to be formed —
a conscious, deliberate relationship
with the physical you.

And like any meaningful relationship,
this one flourishes with presence, care, and love.

If you had a dear friend
that you cherished and adored —
you listen to them,
you make space for their needs,
you celebrate them.
You do any number of things to protect
and nurture your connection.

We wish to take your focus
to contemplating the results
that could be achieved in this area,
if you were to create
a deliberate relationship with your body —

an extension of constant dialogue with you,
seeking harmony,
expressing truth,
creating beauty not defined by appearance,
but the kind that radiates from knowing you are whole,
and in connection with your own being.

Make friends.
See your body as so much more than the vessel —
a consciousness in and of itself,
not separate from your essence,
but in synergy.

Fostering such a connection
creates lasting results —
visceral endearment
that spills over into the way you look,
the way you feel,
the way you are,
the way you move through life.

Knowing you are loved,
supported,
understood,
accepted,
heard,
acknowledged —
are all benefits to truly beautiful relationships.

Imagine all this —
and more —
from a relationship with not only self,
but the very vehicle —
the physical you —
that wants so very much
to relate to you
beyond what you see.

That it’s been doing it
from the moment you came into being —
the very point of your physical creation.

It’s the form of consciousness that knows you better than anyone else can.
It has felt everything you have,
will see all you ever will,
sits in your confusion and uncertainty —
just holding space,
always and forever,
for what comes next.

We hope, sincerely,
the point and purpose
of this narrowing of focus
is not lost on you —
or that you can’t see the benefits we speak of,
that you feel the invitation in it.

When you can gift your attention so easily
to so many others —
remember who’s been there
the whole time.
Never turning away.
Or needing applause.

Every success,
every heartache —
always following your lead,
witness to your journey.

Not even waiting to be noticed —
just carrying on,
no matter what you dish out
or decide —
just holding you.

It’s in the realm of unconditional love.
It means you’re never alone.
Your partner in both chaos and creation
is not somewhere “out there.”

It’s with you now.
And —
stares back…
every time
you look.

Lean in.
Love a little —
this beautiful body
that means you’re here.

Much love

Hope

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Because You Can

Because You Can

Because You Can

31 March. 2025

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Many of you are familiar with the perspective of Free Will

The concept of “Choice”

Most of you want it

To choose for yourselves

To make your own decisions

But we feel value in pointing out

When you get to choose for self

It is linked

Laminated

To being responsible for the choices you make

This means ALL the time

NOT just on the occasions that your choices are in direct alignment with the very specific want that you WILL deliberately own

Because their manifestation is pleasing to you

All of the time

All of the choices

All of your own doing

This is hard for you to accept

To stomach

And so you turn away

Ignore

Rail against

Deliberately disown

The very consequences of your desires

If you could just grasp

Or attempt to DELIBERATELY create

To choose on purpose

“With” purpose

Your brushstrokes

Could be bold

In a broad and colourful backdrop

Changing your mind is a natural option

A valuable part of the process

In living a life

And making decisions

And growing who you are

And expanding your results

And the more you truly grasp the value 

Of choice

The less you will change your mind

You won’t need to

Because you will consider more

As you go

So constant corrections

Or endless alterations

Are far less relevant

To what is occurring

And wanted in your life

When you trust that this is the process

And you’ve made the decision to choose

On purpose

And you get

There is no right or wrong

And the only time is NOW

And the only thing you have any control over

Is your “own” choices

( See that? )

( “own” choices )

( Do you really??………)

( Let us spell it out………)

( Just to be sure )

( “OWN CHOICES” )

You make very different determinations

Life slows down

You see options

NOT limitations

Not lack

Not scarcity

You are not a victim

You are not in a power struggle beyond yourself

Or with yourself

The fight is over

The fun begins

Because you realise 

Your greatest point of power 

Is yourself

And what you choose

The very act

Is a privilege

Not a punishment

It has value

When you are content to take ownership

Of ALL the results

From ALL your actions

“The consequences”

Is what you may call them

Then….

They don’t matter

Because the point of power

Is not in allocating blame

It’s in claiming creativity 

And if you truly see and feel the synergy of this

You know your worth

You know your power

When you are in alignment with Source

It matters not what your individual wants are

For really, their turning up

The manifestation

Of the manifestation

Comes from a space

A place

That is always and forever generating

From your “Highest Good”

Spawning from the purity

Of all existence

When you are in connection with this energy

When you trust it’s being

And allow it to be present in all you do

When you concede “it’s” purpose

Is, to “assist” yours

Then 

You love yourself

You allow yourself

You embrace life

And your place within it

Here

There is no struggle

Here there is no regret

Here, you collapse into 

And become part of

The magic and wonder of

A life

Your world

The universe

That,

That is so much greater

Than the self

For you experience

The oneness

Of the Whole

This vast expansive experience

It is not about “Me”

Nor is it about “You”

It is only singular

In that there is only one Source 

Of all that exists

The sum of you

Emanates from one point

Together, you all have this shared experience

This commonality

All in existence shares it’s origin

Like it or not

You get NO choice about this

So we say to you

OWN it 

Or NOT

It matters not

There is so very little in your world that is finite

Not affected,  or governed by CHANGE

Or CHOICE

The hard, fast

“Laws of the Universe”

Our personal favourite

Will possibly, always be 

Law of Attraction

It’s so openly in play

So easily absorbed and utilised

It’s the “plaything” to be enjoyed

It’s “being”

Creates so much of yours

Please play

Not obsess

Do it

Because you can

And you WANT to

The feeling 

From this perspective

Is nothing short of bliss

We wish it for ALL of you

Deliberately

And on purpose

And we are ready

And willing

To enjoy the consequences

Much love

Hope

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Silver Lighting

Silver Lighting

Silver Lighting

28 March. 2025

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This morning, I was driving down the highway

In the gloom , and the wet

And I was thinking about

And feeling for

People I know

People I care deeply about

And in general

For anyone who is struggling with the very physical things about life that they can’t align with

All the stuff that gets us tangled up

And makes us feel powerless

And feeds into our behaviour

And who we are

The version of ourselves that is 

As opposed, perhaps to the one we’ve been , or would like to be

The kind of stuff we feel happens to us 

And we feel no control over

The stuff that really seems external

 

I wanted to be able to help

I have a different perspective, not on the injustices per say

But whether or not I allow certain things to be my focus

My point of attraction

And I wish I could just open up everyones brain and plant the same seed that grows in mine

Cause it makes it easier

It gives me perspective that lets me cope 

And continue

And actually enjoy my life

And being here

And I have this knowing

That my attention to that stuff

Just expands it

Just grows it

 

Made me think about my Dad….

We would have occasion to sit late at night

In front of the TV and chat

 

My Dad had always been a man who followed politics

He had good subject knowledge

I never shared his love of the political debate

No matter how many times we attempted this pastime

The only firm opinion I could muster

Was that it all seemed to go in circles

No matter what side of the fray you came in on

And that no matter what

There would always be someone not happy with the results

 

I remember a particular occasion

We were deep in this pastime , of ours

And I asked my Dad

“Why do you think so many people get so caught up in something that makes them so upset?”

He stopped and really looked at me

And then said

“I don’t actually know, I’ve never really looked at it quite like that”

Then he said

“Why do you ask?”

All I could say in the moment was

“When we talk about this, I can see that it makes you unhappy,

and “that” makes me unhappy”

 

There was this realisation in this moment, for both of us

That the time we spent together was too important to spend it being unhappy on purpose

We had so much else to talk about

And we did

And it was great

( Still is )

 

And as I reminisced on this…..

 

Outside

In front of me

The road turned silver

The heavens opened up

The grey clouds parted

The rain stopped

And I kid you not!

A ray of light sliced through and hit the wet road

And lit all I could see with a silver glow

Everything!

Completely surreal!

 

And Hope

Made this statement

3 times

Before they went on to say what follows

“Whatever your manifestation

You wish to return to alignment with Source”

“Your manifestation”  is who you are

How you are presenting

The version of “you” present in your world

‘Source’ is the pinnacle of all existence

The divine power

The purest form of purpose and presentation

The one

The all

“Within” and “of” source is absolute being

There is no greater power

No stronger, clearer, purer, form of presence

And so we say

We offer

This very unique perspective

For consideration

That whatever the presence 

Or experience 

That is occurring

Around you

Or from you

Whatever form it takes

If it were to simply

“Want”

To return to

An expression of being

In alignment

In accordance

In sync

With the energy

The presentation

The existence

Of Source

Then all that you can be , do, or have

Would return to it’s origin

It’s original

It’s beginning point

And the divine would always and forever be in play

One would need never to consider

Beyond this one want

All in existence, would be in accordance with the highest good ever possible

So let us put it into very human terms

Let us give it shape and form you may recognise

Those of you grizzling about politics

Those of you searching for answers in regard to your health

Those of you railing against injustices

Those of you playing the blame game

Those of you not familiar with who you have become

Or, indeed, how you arrived where you are at

In this place of discomfort, distrust, despair

Everything from mild annoyance to outright hate

If you are of the mindset

That something is not right

Or as it should be

Or that you are weary of the fight

Or you are wishing to surrender to the undertow

Or dare we express…..

You wish for “change”

Then we say to you

Whatever your manifestation 

Whoever you are when you look in the mirror

However you feel when you reach for emotion

Allow your wish

Your earnest intent

To be, to realign, with Source

For it is here

This is how

You will reacquaint

Yourselves with the bliss of form

The true intention of the human spirit and its allegiance and immersion in a body

On this planet

At this time

Remember

One has to want understanding

Before you , “will”

One has to seek the soul

Before it’s existence

One has to “be” change before you will see it or recognise it

To hate

The hate

To hate “the haters”

Makes yet another form, of one

You see the pattern

The replication of form?

Attach whatever meaning you will to your own version, of the same

It matters not

Unless in your physical manifestations

You allow for the energy

The vibration

Of Source, to flow

You are disconnected from the true intention

What flows is manufactured

What exists is all of human construct

The only original

Is Source

So all else that comes

That occurs

Devoid of 

Or without familiarity

And connection to Source

Is foreign 

And this is why it does not fit

It will not thrive

It cannot last

If you seek to play this game, with the self

It will continue

Until you too, return to Source

And begin again

As the pure , positive, purpose

You were intended for

It is this connection 

This tether

That allows

Not negates

Not holds you separate

That stems the flow of all you are and all you are meant to be

The choice is yours

Be deliberately active in this vibration

Or not

If you are not in the “flow” state

You are not in the “grow” state

And therefore

You are in resistance

Deliberately deciding to stem the flow

To create disharmony

To have a disconnect from expansion

To repair, return, realign, remember, refamiliarise, release

Simply REALIGN

With Source

How many times

How many occasions

How many reasons

Must you have to remain 

In a state of Being

That does not serve you

All you fight against

No matter, it’s form

It’s manifestation

And whether it belong to you

Or , the other

For it is easier

More comfortable, for you to allocate

Misalignment outside yourself

It is ALL , of the same origin

Beyond the flow

From a source

Other

Than SOURCE

And no

You do not

And cannot

Control , Source

But you can 

And will

And do

Control your access

Your connection,  with it

Please consider our words with an open heart

Please attempt to allow all you “are”, to reconnect with all that is

Finding a “little” joy

Is a far greater point of power

Than finding a lot of hate

Much love

Hope x

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” You’re a What Now?? “

” You’re a What Now?? “

” You’re a What Now?? “

10 Dec , 2024

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Two of the most asked questions I get lately are

 

“Lost your password?”

Which clearly comes from a device

And

“What do you do?”

Which mostly comes from a person

 

And when I think about how to answer the later

It often crosses my mind, first

That I’ve lost more than my password

It’s more like my marbles…..

 

Be that, what it may

These days, I’ll say

“I’m an Evidential Medium”

And then they’ll say….

 

“You’re a what now??”

 

I’d really love if people could embrace this form of communication the way I do

See it’s value

Feel it’s true potential for healing, understanding and connection

And I feel a natural place for this acceptance to meet curiosity

Is to explain what it actually is

 

I’ll keep it brief

Just a crash course in the basics

Of course, if you’ve got questions….

(You know where to find me)

 

Evidential Mediumship is a specific form of mediumship

Where the medium provides verifiable, detailed evidence that confirms the presence and identity of a spirit or deceased person

The goal is not just to relay general messages

But to offer specific information that can be recognised by the person receiving the reading

Often providing them with proof that the medium is genuinely connecting with the spirit of a loved one

 

 The kind of evidence could be

Names, nicknames, or terms of endearment of those passed

Personal details about the person

Like their occupation, appearance, mannerisms, hobbies

Maybe even their specific relationship to the person the reading is for

You might get physical traits

How the person passed

Or other medical or health details unique to the spirit being communicated with

The medium might describe items or belongings with special meaning between the 2 parties

A particular piece of jewellery or a photo

Often there can be experiences or events from the person’s life that would not be known to the medium

But are meaningful to the person seeking the reading

And of course

Messages of love and reassurance

That bring comfort, especially to anyone grieving

 

The key difference between Evidential and other forms of mediumship

Is that evidential mediums strive to provide proof

Proof that they are truly communicating with the spirit realms

And those you’ve loved and lost

As opposed to simply offering general or vague messages

This type of mediumship aims to create a deeper sense of trust

Understanding

And validation for the person receiving the reading

Much love

Kate (& Hope)

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” The year of YES “

” The year of YES “

” The year of YES “

21 Nov , 2024

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Hey there!

I made a post last week

And someone asked……

 

“ Where have you been??”

 

In short

“I been BUSY”

Yeah, busy BEING!

Being “Me”

 

I decided a year ago to do some study

To deliberately stretch my “spiritual self”

And to follow a path I hadn’t explored or nurtured on purpose since the beginning

My objective was to grow

To keep building my skills

And to connect on a deeper level

With myself

With others

With why I do , what I do

With how I do it

With spirit

With those I love that are gone

With life!

 

Job done!

Big tick!

I’ve spent the last 12 months hanging out with a bunch of like minded “living” souls

Talking to a bunch of “departed” souls

Those that have passed

Those that have left their body

Those friends and loved ones that we all have, that no longer live on planet Earth

It’s been fun

It’s been enlightening

It’s been comforting

And rewarding

And informative

And filled to overflowing

With JOY

 

I am so grateful

For my “Year of YES”

It was a gift

One I gave to myself

So that hopefully

I can, in turn, use my skills as a gift to others

An act of service

A way of giving back

 

I’m here and ready to keep moving forward

My calendar is open

And I’m looking forward to filling it with readings and introductions to your loved ones

Opportunities to connect you with those you miss

Memories that warm your heart

Confirmation of a safe arrival

Healing that may not have had a chance before people passed

Or, just a catch up with those you hold dear

 

Mediumship is a very real skill

It’s not always appreciated or recognised as such

But, it has the ability to move us forward

To help us cope

To honour a life

Both theirs

And ours

And to assist with grief

And grow the moments you cherish

 

What I love about it most

Is that it stretches our thinking

It creates new boundaries

It is a way to continue

The relationships

And love

And sharing

That once were

It helps remind us

When we leave

It’s not over

It’s simply

A new way of Being

 

One that offers affection, understanding, and possibility

I feel so deeply lucky

To be able to do this work

I look forward to meeting you, your friends, and your families

 

Oh and just an FYI…..

Hope have been along for the ride

Watching

Waiting

Giggling

Comforting

Encouraging

Explaining

Totally supportive

Completely present

And as always

Ready for what’s next!

 

Much love

Kate ( and Hope : )

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